Does it make me a crazy girlfriend to be a leeeeetle taken aback when if I have the opportunity to spend a little extra time with long distance boyfriend, I jump on it- but when he has the same… he’d rather find something else to do. Because this happens a lot and I’m getting a little confused. Am I too clingy or is he being an asshole?
Story: It’s my birthday weekend and boyfriend and I are going to the mountains. Original plan was to stay Saturday-Tuesday. He thought this was too long to take off work (because he’d have to take 2 extra days to get down here blah blah whatever) so we abridged it to only going up Sunday-Tuesday and he’d spend Saturday with his family here in Charlotte. So… I just found out (because I asked) that he has tomorrow off so if he wanted to, he could come tomorrow and we could leave a day early. Not the case. He’d rather “spend the day with Tyler (his brother- who he lives with) and get shit together”
This happened the last time I saw him when he blew me off for a party with his friends who he sees every week when I had the opportunity to spend an extra night with him.
What the fuck? Am I crazy? IT’S MY FUCKN BIRTHDAY… just saying.